Maybe you've been looking for a house for weeks and still have an eye for the one. You know that you really need to buy it, but you're concerned about the competing bids.

People who need financing, which the vast majority do as well as those with smaller down payments often find it difficult to compete with all-cash buyers who can entice sellers with clean deals and fast closings. So, to stand out in the bidding war or to win the battle against the cash-buyers, we have a strategy for you; it is not uncommon to write a heartfelt personal letter to the seller.

You might think why should I write a letter to the seller in this age of technology but this old-fashioned personal touch might get you your dream house. Establishing this meaningful connection may motivate the seller to accept your bid. Here are a few tips you can follow while writing the letter.

Open The Letter With A Compliment:

Even if the seller has only lived in their home for a few years, everyone is attached to the house they live in. The seller would want a buyer who would take care of the house as much as they have. Feel free to talk about unique aspects of their property that drew you in. Mention the things you love, perhaps the cabinets in the kitchen or the arrangement of a Tv lounge and how you see yourself using it.

I can’t wait to create new memories in the new kitchen. The combination of concrete floor and stainless-steel elements looks amazing.

As much as I love gardening, my kids would enjoy outdoor activities in your spacious garden.

The seller would like to hear things you love about the house even if you think it needs a renovation, who doesn’t like a compliment?

Keep It Short And Precise:

If you're writing a letter to buy a home, keep it short and sweet. No one wants to read pages and pages of your personal history unless you're a gifted storyteller. Especially if you are in a middle of a bidding war, sellers might also be receiving a letter from other buyers. Your longwinded letter would just bore your seller, keep it simple. Leave out the fluff and try limiting the letter to just one page. Focus on two or three of the most critical reasons why you are the right buyer for the house.

Stay Positive:

It’s important to keep the tone of the letter positive. Avoid mentioning any previous offers that were turned down. While this may be true, it may appear that you are using guilt to persuade the homeowners to sell to you. That's unsettling, and it'll almost certainly work against you. Don’t make the seller uncomfortable by appearing too desperate.

You should also avoid mentioning any plans for a big renovation, as this could pull the seller's heartstrings — you're going to do WHAT to the room where I lived with my husband for 10 years? So, be considerate of their memories and experiences, and keep your remodeling plans to yourself.

Finish Strong:

The letter should have a strong finish as well. Conclude with a short paragraph that reaffirms one key point; why are you the best buyer. This is your last point and last chance to flatter him. Express your gratitude for the seller's time and consideration.

Thank you so much for your time.

We would be honored to live in such a beautiful home.

A real estate offer letter does not always guarantee that you will get the home of your dreams. However, a well-written letter to the seller can often be enough to tip the scales in your favor, particularly if you can persuade the seller that you and your family love the house and are the best buyers.